The same ring can look completely different on two hands. A stone that looks huge on slim fingers can look small on wider ones, and a wide band that looks bold on long fingers can make short fingers look shorter. Here is how to choose a ring that flatters your finger shape.

First, look at your fingers

Hold your hand flat in front of you and notice two things:

• Length: are your fingers short or long compared with your palm?
• Width: are your fingers slim or wide? Are your knuckles bigger than the base of the finger?

Most hands are a mix, like short and slim, or long and wide. Use the tips for both.

Short fingers: add length

The goal is to make the finger look longer.

• Best stone shapes: oval, pear, marquise and elongated emerald or radiant cuts, set north to south (pointing along the finger).
• Band: thin bands (about 1.5 to 2 mm) or V-shaped bands, which create a lengthening line.
• Avoid: wide bands, chunky stacks and east-west settings, which cut across the finger and make it look shorter.

Long fingers: go bold

Long fingers can carry almost anything, especially pieces that add width.

• Best stone shapes: round, cushion, princess, Asscher and east-west settings.
• Band: wider bands, cluster rings, halo rings and stacks of two or three bands.
• Tip: this is the hand for statement cocktail rings and big solitaires.

Slim or petite fingers: keep it in proportion

• Best stone shapes: round, oval and pear. A 0.5 to 1.5 carat stone looks generous on slim fingers.
• Band: delicate bands of 1.5 to 2 mm keep the ring balanced.
• Avoid: very wide bands and very large stones, which can overwhelm the hand.
• Tip: a halo makes a smaller centre stone look bigger without looking bulky.

Wide fingers: choose bigger and longer

• Best stone shapes: oval, pear, marquise and emerald cuts, which slim the finger. Asymmetrical and three-stone designs work well too.
• Size: go for a slightly bigger stone (1.5 carats and up). A small stone can look lost on a wider finger.
• Band: medium bands of about 2.5 to 3 mm. A very thin band can look like it's disappearing.
• Tip: a split shank or tapered band adds detail and keeps the look in proportion.

Big knuckles

If your knuckle is wider than the base of your finger, the ring has to fit over the knuckle, so it can spin once it's on.

• Choose: slightly wider bands, which sit more steadily, and a comfort-fit (rounded inside) band that slides over the knuckle more easily.
• Avoid: very top-heavy settings on a thin band, which tend to flip to the side.
• Tip: ask your jeweller about sizing beads inside the band to stop the ring spinning.

Quick cheat sheet

• Short fingers: oval, pear and marquise on a thin band.
• Long fingers: round, cushion, east-west and stacks.
• Slim fingers: delicate bands and halo settings.
• Wide fingers: bigger elongated stones on a medium band.
• Big knuckles: comfort-fit bands and sizing beads.

Get the size right

Fingers swell in the heat and shrink in the cold, so measure at the end of the day at room temperature. Follow our guide on how to check your Indian ring size. Buying an engagement ring? Our engagement ring buying guide covers budget, stone and metal.

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